i think the stations are working just fine(with a few hickups), i have started my second station which is going faster and better than my first. other than operator hang ups(due to my own fault not the game), im having a blast with it all. Factory is laying down quite nicely, i enjoyed very much today's patch that cleaned up the crafting stuff. and i dont build in simple form, i like complicated structures so i have been really testing what i can and can't do and i have found it to be pretty satisfying so far. each week the patches make it that much better, my crew have access to their own storage on my stations, while we dont share the ore directly through the stations we do have individual storages that they can drop off without me being there and continue working if need be. we leave a couple cargo ships with 40+ storage to share the materials from each other storage so we found a quite easy workaround.
not sure why people are having crazy issues like above but the 2 dozen i talk to in the game don't have any of these problems. and be honest i just don't have any idea on how to help, i could say double check your bolting when your not laying modules and make sure you dont have floaters when not laying modules, those 2 things can destroy a station and ship.